While most men would pay $10,000 for a larger penis, there are some (believe it or not) who have to pay the same only they are getting the size of their penis REDUCED. That is, after having a botched penis enlargement surgery. In any event, this sobering article sheds a little light on the subject and reminds us that nine times out of ten, we are probably fine just the way we are, penis-wise. — TCH

Being in the business of the penis enlargement industry, I have heard case after case of horrible situations involving penis augmentation surgery, or commonly known as penis enlargement surgery. All of these cases involve irreversible effects, leaving a man either without a penis at all, a penis that is non-functional, or in best cases a scarred, deformed penis that has lost only some of its functionality.

First I would like to address the misconception behind surgical penis enlargement. Being men, we tend to care for our penis quite a bit. We make sure it is clean, if we see some kind of new spot; we immediately become concerned, wondering if everything’s okay, in general we place great importance on it. So it is not very hard for someone to realize that being involved in a penis industry will have success. Today we see hundreds of different products, techniques, surgery, pumps, weights, and even hypnosis. Everything and anything that people can scam you out of your money.

Now being that we are society that trusts doctors with our deepest secrets, secrets that even our spouse may not know about, we look for doctors when we are faced with a problem that involves our physical body, even the most intimate parts of our body. We trust doctors beyond immeasurable scopes. We will spend from $3,000 to $10,000 so our wives can get bigger breasts. The doctor fills the breasts full of silicone and bam, problem solved. Now this is where our biggest misconception comes from, if women can have it done, why can’t men have it done? Why would we not be able to successfully increase the size of our penis with surgery? Doctors are magicians right? Wrong. We fail to remember a few things. Breasts do not necessarily have to serve any function, it is like plastic surgery, and it is done for looks only. The penis is an organ that is required to function on a daily basis however, quite often several times per day. If it was just about looks then it would not be such a big issue. However there are an extremely large number of cases with men whose penis increases in size by several inches, but the problem is that he can’t get it up. What is the purpose of that? Just to throw out a few more stats at you, on the average penis enlargement surgery costs around $5,000. More than 50% of these surgeries require additional “reconstructive” surgery generally costing for a total of over $10,000. Why would spend that kind of money? Some people save years for these kinds of operations, only to come out damaged for life.

If you would like to read about a few real life stories:

San Francisco State University: http://130.212.44.5/custom/magazine/penis.html

Discovery Channel: http://www.discoverychannel.ca/sexfiles/season_1/sfs101b2.htm

Now what about alternatives? First I’d like to make sure that you even need an alternative. What is the reason for why you want a larger penis? Is it so you perform better in bed? Is it to be able to satisfy your sexual partner more? Is it so you don’t feel ashamed at the gym, or any other place where others can see your penis? If you said yes to any of these questions then you do not need penis enlargement. What you need is some confidence, maybe some more skills in bed, or in a worst scenario you just need something to help with the premature ejaculation. There are only a few reasons where I can see a larger penis a must; one includes trying to become a porn star.

Whatever your reason is however, there are natural, safe, and healthy ways of penis enlargement. Some of our recommended forms of penis enlargement are penis exercises such as jelqing and penis enlargement pills such as VigRX, Magna-RX+ and VP-RX, among others. There are many penis enlargement products, so please be sure to do your research before making your decision.

About the Author: Serj Sagan is the CEO and owner of Male Enhancement Research. Dedicated to find the real truth about male enhancement products and companies and expose it to the consumer. Copyright 2005 Serj Sagan of Male Enhancement Research at http://www.enhancementresearch.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

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If you are among those who believe that masturbation is enjoyable, natural and healthy, then join those of like minds masturbating for the Masturbate-a-thon on May 28, 2008 in San Francisco. This event is a fundraiser for the Center for Sex and Culture which is dedicated to supporting sex education and sexual safety.

An event for men and women, this year celebrates the Masturbate-a-thon’s tenth year. What started out as a small-scale pledge drive has blossomed into an event that attracts people from around the world. The event was an instant success and continues to be popular. According to the Masturbate-a-thon website,

It started as a weekend long pledge drive that operated on the honor system. Participants got their pals to promise money for each minute of masturbation. As Carol Queen said then, “who’d want to cheat? It’s so much fun to masturbate, it’s not like you won’t do it and then say you did.” In the first year the Masturbate-a-thon raised $8,500 for good causes. In the years that the Masturbate-a-thon operated as a do-it-yourself event it raised over $25,000, distributed 66,000 pledge forms, had 1700 pledged participants from six different countries.

Does it all sound exciting? Think you want to fly up to San Fran and try your hand, metaphorically speaking? Well, if you plan to do any record-breaking, here’s what you’re up against

Time Records:

• Female: 6 h, 30 min (Norine Dworkin, San Francisco, 2004)
• Male: 8 h, 30 min (San Francisco, 2006)
• Trans/Genderqueer: Yet to be set!

Most Orgasms:

• Female: 49 (London, 2006)
• Male: 6 (London, 2006)
• Trans/Genderqueer: Yet to be set!

The good news is you don’t have to break any records. Just go to have fun, learn and love more about yourself, and support a super creative way to support a very good cause.

For more information, visit the Masturbate-a-thon website at http://www.masturbate-a-thon.com/.

There is an interesting discussion on Yahoo Answers that explores the ways in which male masturbation is characterized (in contrast to female masturbation) and the Victorian-style repression that is, unfortunately, still part of the age-old controversy.

Listen, folks, every man I know masturbates or has masturbated at one time or another. It is a healthy and natural part of human sexuality. Here’s another shocker. Women masturbate too for the same healthy, natural reasons born of the same human need. In fact, even in prehistoric places where masturbation is punishable by death, people masturbate anyway so it never ceases to amaze me that there is still so much controversy and shame.

For my part, people who view masturbation as ’sinful’ or ‘base’ are usually sexually repressed, uptight, unhappy people. Why? Because at the core, to take such a rigid position (pun intended) inherently denies that human beings have the right to pleasure themselves. After all, we pleasure ourselves in so many other ways like eating our favorite foods, going to see a good movie, taking a walk in the park. How is masturbation any different at its core? We can look at our primate cousins for empirical proof that masturbation has been around for a hell of a lot longer than our limited and relatively new capacity for language that has allowed us to label it ‘bad’

Check out the full post on Yahoo Answers.

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and revolves mainly around ideas of male sexuality. It serves to reinforce the women as a sexual object and it objectifies women to mainly being passive roles around a man s sexuality. How harmful